I haven't heard from my pot Mr. Wonderful , in almost a week . I think that's a good thing though because I could see my self falling too hard for him.
In other news - I met someone , I will call him Mr. Big ... and he's pretty great :) Problem is , he wants a serious LTR ... and I think I would with someone like him as well.
I will update more later .
Attempting to live life as normally as possible , for a new sugar baby .
Friday, October 28, 2011
Monday, October 24, 2011
The search for a sugar daddy
I'll continue the story about " Mr . Clooney " some other time , when I can fight the tears . Yes - he has passed away.
So , I am on the search for a sugar daddy and ugh - it has NOT been easy .
I have a profile on SD4M and SA .. I've met 2 pots from SD4M and both have been disasters.
1st pot I met , we will call him " Mr. Lawyer " - He is a lawyer from my area who is married, has children and is bored. He had a previous " arrangement " with his old secretary and it worked out great . I met him at a local coffee shop and his pictures did him NO justice . He was much better looking in person . He told me he thought I was " cute " and could not wait to " fondle my breasts " .. I laughed it off and told him that nothing of that nature would happen until we set up an arrangement . He made a few comments of how " he never pays retail for anything because he's from ______ " .. I thought to myself " Well buddy this is NOT a bargain option deal " .. He wanted someone to travel with and see him in his office a few times a week..He told me to think of what kind of " financial assistance" I'd like and to get back with him . I gave him a small kiss and told him I looked forward to seeing him again . I came home and sent him an email telling him that I thought $2,400 monthly was a fair allowance . ... No answer . I sent him a text and asked him if he was still interested ..because he acted VERY interested during our meet ... and then of course I got the " I'm sorry I can not afford that amount . Good luck " ...UGH ! DOUCHE BAG ! THANKS FOR WASTING MY TIME ! ..He wanted a prostitute .. Not a sugar baby . GOOD LUCK TO YOU, PAL :)
2nd pot I met - we can call him " Mr. Investor " - he's a very very wealthy investor from my area as well . He has had arrangements before and is going through a horrible divorce and wanted someone to keep his mind off the problems . He lives in a VERY affluent neighborhood where homes are all over 2 million dollars . We exchanged a few e-mails and text messages before agreeing to meet . We were supposed to have dinner Saturday . He calls to confirm and I tell him I am heading home to get ready . He tells me to meet him at this nice little wine bar ... I head out and text him to say I am on my way and get a call , asking if I'd mind meeting him at a steak house with some of his business associates. Of course - I should have known better but giving him the benefit of the doubt , I didn't listen to myself . He pulls up with a friend and is acting very shady . I go to give him a hug and he seems like he is in a hurry ( Annoying!) Then - to make things even worse , when we walk into the steakhouse , his business associates are all sitting by the bar and he asks me to " wait a second while he talks to them " .. I literally waited almost 10 minutes, in PLAIN VIEW of them . He pulls up a chair , his friend sits next to him and he motions me to come sit next to his friend . I was SO angry at that moment I just kept hoping for time to pass quickly . I was bored .... and then I heard " I met her off this website , but it's a clear misrepresentation of herself . I am used to BEAUTIFUL women " .. THIS IS WHAT HE TOLD HIS FRIEND ! I was mortified ! I am NO barbie , but I am INTELLIGENT , I HAVE A CARREER ! I AM VERY WELL EDUCATED , MY FATHER WAS A SURGEON ! HOW DARE YOU , YOU FAT PIECE OF SHIT BASTARD ! ... I kept my cool , finished my pinot grigio and started to say I was tired. He complained of back pain , I told him " Yeah get that checked out . " ... NEEDLESS TO SAY ... Fuck him :)
However , I think I may actually have a little crush on a possible pot ..He is , Mr. Wonderful :)
So , I am on the search for a sugar daddy and ugh - it has NOT been easy .
I have a profile on SD4M and SA .. I've met 2 pots from SD4M and both have been disasters.
1st pot I met , we will call him " Mr. Lawyer " - He is a lawyer from my area who is married, has children and is bored. He had a previous " arrangement " with his old secretary and it worked out great . I met him at a local coffee shop and his pictures did him NO justice . He was much better looking in person . He told me he thought I was " cute " and could not wait to " fondle my breasts " .. I laughed it off and told him that nothing of that nature would happen until we set up an arrangement . He made a few comments of how " he never pays retail for anything because he's from ______ " .. I thought to myself " Well buddy this is NOT a bargain option deal " .. He wanted someone to travel with and see him in his office a few times a week..He told me to think of what kind of " financial assistance" I'd like and to get back with him . I gave him a small kiss and told him I looked forward to seeing him again . I came home and sent him an email telling him that I thought $2,400 monthly was a fair allowance . ... No answer . I sent him a text and asked him if he was still interested ..because he acted VERY interested during our meet ... and then of course I got the " I'm sorry I can not afford that amount . Good luck " ...UGH ! DOUCHE BAG ! THANKS FOR WASTING MY TIME ! ..He wanted a prostitute .. Not a sugar baby . GOOD LUCK TO YOU, PAL :)
2nd pot I met - we can call him " Mr. Investor " - he's a very very wealthy investor from my area as well . He has had arrangements before and is going through a horrible divorce and wanted someone to keep his mind off the problems . He lives in a VERY affluent neighborhood where homes are all over 2 million dollars . We exchanged a few e-mails and text messages before agreeing to meet . We were supposed to have dinner Saturday . He calls to confirm and I tell him I am heading home to get ready . He tells me to meet him at this nice little wine bar ... I head out and text him to say I am on my way and get a call , asking if I'd mind meeting him at a steak house with some of his business associates. Of course - I should have known better but giving him the benefit of the doubt , I didn't listen to myself . He pulls up with a friend and is acting very shady . I go to give him a hug and he seems like he is in a hurry ( Annoying!) Then - to make things even worse , when we walk into the steakhouse , his business associates are all sitting by the bar and he asks me to " wait a second while he talks to them " .. I literally waited almost 10 minutes, in PLAIN VIEW of them . He pulls up a chair , his friend sits next to him and he motions me to come sit next to his friend . I was SO angry at that moment I just kept hoping for time to pass quickly . I was bored .... and then I heard " I met her off this website , but it's a clear misrepresentation of herself . I am used to BEAUTIFUL women " .. THIS IS WHAT HE TOLD HIS FRIEND ! I was mortified ! I am NO barbie , but I am INTELLIGENT , I HAVE A CARREER ! I AM VERY WELL EDUCATED , MY FATHER WAS A SURGEON ! HOW DARE YOU , YOU FAT PIECE OF SHIT BASTARD ! ... I kept my cool , finished my pinot grigio and started to say I was tired. He complained of back pain , I told him " Yeah get that checked out . " ... NEEDLESS TO SAY ... Fuck him :)
However , I think I may actually have a little crush on a possible pot ..He is , Mr. Wonderful :)
Welcome to the dollhouse ...
How hard can being a sugar baby be ? .....Harder than I thought .
Hello everyone and allow me to introduce myself .
I am in my late 20's and I am new to the sugar world . After a lot of careful research and thoughts - I have decided to join in on the fun . A little background info on me , I am a college graduate , I actually have a masters degree . I live in gorgeous Florida and spend most of time , at work . Ugh- lame I know :)
I was really hesitant to doing this but something clicked in my head the other day ,when I was about 21.
I started working at a pharmaceutical distributing / sales company as a receptionist . It was just a job to make ends meet while I was in school .. and I think that this is where I came in contact with my first SD/SB relationship...but with A LOT of strings attached.
He was 36 , I was 21 and healing over a very hard break up of a 5 year relationship . He was the owner of the company . A Clooney look a like , salt and peeper hair and all . He was handsome , powerful , intriguing and SINGLE. Recently divorced , and VERY successful . I never had an attraction to him , until one Friday I wore a high waist black skirt from Express and he mentioned to his assistant he thought I was " hot " .... I giggle and ignored it . I went to say goodbye to him that Friday and he asked me what I was doing over the weekend .. I told him I was just getting my hair done and hanging out at home . He said he was going away for business and in a VERY BRAVE , not like me at all move .. I gave him my number and told him to call me if he gets bored . .
I guess he got bored .
I had a text from him by Saturday . We talked about everything from our backgrounds , to what we wanted out of life ... It started out innocently , and then he asked me out for dinner . I thought I could NOT do this , he's my boss . BUT DAMN was he good looking .
We set up a dinner date , for the following week when he got back . He was in Vegas for a convention , we kept in touch while he was out of town . His assistant knew of our communication and I could barely contain my smile when he called the office . The week flew by .. and it was Saturday , time for our date.
He picked me up from my mom's house and he actually walked up to the door and knocked . He had flowers , I was melting . I set them down and introduced him to my mother who was clearly taken back by his good looks . He was wearing khaki dress pants , a black Tommy Bahama shirt and the most gorgeous Rolex I had ever seen . He opened the door of his car for me , a blue Lexus SUV . We went to get sushi , and the conversation flowed easily over a few glasses of wine and did he KNOW his wine .. He was an avid wine collector and had visited Napa Valley " many times .. " He had a " Mr. Big " from Sex and The City charm .. He was slowly growing on me .. and I liked it . I liked him ...
We had the most mind blowing kiss when he dropped me off , and just like that .. I knew this could be the start of something great .
We decided to keep things on the hush hush for a while , A few months later co-worker invited us to his wife's baby shower , " Mr. Clooney " said we should go.. As a couple . Almost like a " coming out " party ..I agreed . He picked me up and and I walked in holding his hand . " He called me " Little One " ..
I felt proud , I feel powerful and I felt like I was falling in love with him .
I wish he was still around ... May he rest in peace . 3/2/1970 - 10/16/2010
" I miss your tan skin , your sweet smile , so good to me so right ....and how you held me in your arms that September night the first time you ever saw me cry . Maybe this is wishful thinking , probably mindless dreaming but if we loved again I swear I'd love you right , I'd go back in time and change it but I cant ..so if a chain is on your door I understand.. and this is me swallowing my pride standing in front you saying I'm sorry for that night and I go back to December . It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you , wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine .. I'd go back to December turn around and make it alright , I'd go back to December turn around and change my own mind .. I go back to December all the time "
Hello everyone and allow me to introduce myself .
I am in my late 20's and I am new to the sugar world . After a lot of careful research and thoughts - I have decided to join in on the fun . A little background info on me , I am a college graduate , I actually have a masters degree . I live in gorgeous Florida and spend most of time , at work . Ugh- lame I know :)
I was really hesitant to doing this but something clicked in my head the other day ,when I was about 21.
I started working at a pharmaceutical distributing / sales company as a receptionist . It was just a job to make ends meet while I was in school .. and I think that this is where I came in contact with my first SD/SB relationship...but with A LOT of strings attached.
He was 36 , I was 21 and healing over a very hard break up of a 5 year relationship . He was the owner of the company . A Clooney look a like , salt and peeper hair and all . He was handsome , powerful , intriguing and SINGLE. Recently divorced , and VERY successful . I never had an attraction to him , until one Friday I wore a high waist black skirt from Express and he mentioned to his assistant he thought I was " hot " .... I giggle and ignored it . I went to say goodbye to him that Friday and he asked me what I was doing over the weekend .. I told him I was just getting my hair done and hanging out at home . He said he was going away for business and in a VERY BRAVE , not like me at all move .. I gave him my number and told him to call me if he gets bored . .
I guess he got bored .
I had a text from him by Saturday . We talked about everything from our backgrounds , to what we wanted out of life ... It started out innocently , and then he asked me out for dinner . I thought I could NOT do this , he's my boss . BUT DAMN was he good looking .
We set up a dinner date , for the following week when he got back . He was in Vegas for a convention , we kept in touch while he was out of town . His assistant knew of our communication and I could barely contain my smile when he called the office . The week flew by .. and it was Saturday , time for our date.
He picked me up from my mom's house and he actually walked up to the door and knocked . He had flowers , I was melting . I set them down and introduced him to my mother who was clearly taken back by his good looks . He was wearing khaki dress pants , a black Tommy Bahama shirt and the most gorgeous Rolex I had ever seen . He opened the door of his car for me , a blue Lexus SUV . We went to get sushi , and the conversation flowed easily over a few glasses of wine and did he KNOW his wine .. He was an avid wine collector and had visited Napa Valley " many times .. " He had a " Mr. Big " from Sex and The City charm .. He was slowly growing on me .. and I liked it . I liked him ...
We had the most mind blowing kiss when he dropped me off , and just like that .. I knew this could be the start of something great .
We decided to keep things on the hush hush for a while , A few months later co-worker invited us to his wife's baby shower , " Mr. Clooney " said we should go.. As a couple . Almost like a " coming out " party ..I agreed . He picked me up and and I walked in holding his hand . " He called me " Little One " ..
I felt proud , I feel powerful and I felt like I was falling in love with him .
I wish he was still around ... May he rest in peace . 3/2/1970 - 10/16/2010
" I miss your tan skin , your sweet smile , so good to me so right ....and how you held me in your arms that September night the first time you ever saw me cry . Maybe this is wishful thinking , probably mindless dreaming but if we loved again I swear I'd love you right , I'd go back in time and change it but I cant ..so if a chain is on your door I understand.. and this is me swallowing my pride standing in front you saying I'm sorry for that night and I go back to December . It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you , wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine .. I'd go back to December turn around and make it alright , I'd go back to December turn around and change my own mind .. I go back to December all the time "
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